Sunday 8 March 2009

desperation

really, to beg and plead and ask to be remembered deafeats the purpose.

after all, being texted, remembered and asked 'how are you?" is not only mere conversation, its also a manifestation that someone really cares to know how you are.

one should stop begging to be loved..

its not good for the self esteem and wellbeing.

11 comments:

Aileen said...

one should stop begging to be loved..

its not good for the self esteem and wellbeing.


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correct! (in a kris aquino twang) =)

plain jin said...

so true...so true. pathetic na nuon sa? :hide:

Aileen said...

btw, kinsa ni? haha, chismosa ko. LOL.

photosandmemos said...

"btw, kinsa ni? haha, chismosa ko. LOL."

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hi ai...its actually me...in my clingy needy moment again...im so homesick, i feel like hostaging people and begging them to care...but really, its so pointless...love and care should not be asked..it should be given freely and openly...once you ask for it, there is a problem there somewhere...so if its not given, its not there in the first place...

i jsut remembered, the line you say all the time " love is a verb"...people say they care and love you...but saying and doing it are totally different scenarios..

ingon ani gyud ko when im homesick and missing my father...and im not feeling too well=)

photosandmemos said...

so true...so true. pathetic na nuon sa? :hide:

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thats exactly what i feel right now jane..pathetic...and a big loser,haha=)

Aileen said...

hi ai...its actually me...in my clingy needy moment again...im so homesick, i feel like hostaging people and begging them to care...but really, its so pointless...love and care should not be asked..it should be given freely and openly...once you ask for it, there is a problem there somewhere...so if its not given, its not there in the first place...

i jsut remembered, the line you say all the time " love is a verb"...people say they care and love you...but saying and doing it are totally different scenarios..

ingon ani gyud ko when im homesick and missing my father...and im not feeling too well=)

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we all have those moments, chel. and i can't blame you, layo ka sa family.

*HUGS*

why aren't you feeling well? fever ka? take lots of fluid and rest.

pastilan. hahaha. seriously, many people (kita included) have made promises to love and care but sometimes fail to show it.

and sometimes, people do not/cannot love us the way we want them to. they can only love us the way they know how. =)

be happy. a lot of us love you. dili lang mi showy. hahahahaha!

hiddenrage said...

pastilan. hahaha. seriously, many people (kita included) have made promises to love and care but sometimes fail to show it.
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hahaha, i love the "pastilan"=)

true...everything you said makes sense..this is just a momental dip...im just having mini-colds and cough but nothing serious...just homesick thats all:-)

i guess, i need rest..im overworked..:-)

Aileen said...

abi gyud ako naay nangaway nimo, mao nagminaldita ko sa akong blog. haha. but i deleted the last line. =D

feel better na, *hugs*

hiddenrage said...

feel better na, *hugs*
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you are one true friend..thank you ai=)

i already feel better...=)*hugs*

Mommy Blogs said...

which reminds me, i don't have your mobile number...

photosandmemos said...

che, you can contact me better through my landline coz makabilin ka ug message sa machine=)